The entire phenomenal universe exists because of the tension between the opposites: hot and cold, growth and decay, gain and loss, success and failure. This constant state of conflict weighs on me. However, the tension between these polarities is resolved by the process of unification. I learned, the moment I accept this phenomena of duality, I transcend it. These polarities cannot be removed. They are part of existence and, part of every relationship, including the relationship between man and woman.